I just had the best dream I've ever had. I was flying. I know itโs not unusualโpeople have flight dreams all the time. But not me. Instead, I have crazy-ass dreams that unfold like blockbuster Hollywood movies complete with large casts, scene changes, and full-on plots. Iโm talking dreams that require a costume department and... Continue Reading →
The cat in the backpack
Once upon a time, a mom embarked on an adventure with her son, their two corgis, and Jasper - the cat in the backpack. They traveled by car from Upstate New York to Western Washington over the course of three weeks. They visited amazing places, slept in random motels, ate whatever they could forage along... Continue Reading →
In the moment
I love to travel. I get that this is not breaking news to any of you who have followed my blog from day one. Youโve probably even clued into this passion of mine if youโre a more recent convert. Itโs not a secret. From the beginning of time as I know it, I have yearned... Continue Reading →
Opportunity response system
When I was a teenager, I painted my walls green and papered them with European travel posters and impressionist reproductions. Art and travel โ these particular passions havenโt changed much since then except that, as Iโve wandered, my tastes have expanded in ways I never would have predicted. As a bonus, these loves of mine... Continue Reading →
Fresh paint
You know those things you use so often that you just canโt see them clearly anymore? We all have them. Maybe itโs your favorite pair of sneakers. They were cute and new when you walked all over London in them, but now theyโre dirty and lopsided. You donโt see their degeneration because every time you... Continue Reading →
Twenty months
In May of 2016, I went to bed as me and woke up in someone elseโs life. I may have come a long way since then, but Iโd be lying if I said I donโt have some residual issues hanging on like parasites. Most of the time, I have trouble understanding how itโs taken so... Continue Reading →
This is me
My blog has multiple personality disorder. At times itโs a fun, lighthearted travel romp full of exciting destinations and mouth-watering food. Sometimes itโs replete with photos of cute, zany pets who make me laugh. But at other times, on the darkest of days, itโs a dive into the mind of a woman, the mother of... Continue Reading →
A voice recovered
For many months, I couldnโt find my voice. It was nothing more than a weak, insubstantial tangle of words. Without it I felt lost and adrift in the dark. My light, the one that I cherish above all others for its capacity to bare my soul and expose my heart to the world, was gone.... Continue Reading →
I don’t cry in public
I donโt cry in public. Maybe a few tears during an emotional scene in a movie, or when I smack into a tragic moment in history, like at the 9/11 Museum in NYC. But otherwise, no tears. Itโs not because I donโt feel sorrow or joy; I just donโt do big public displays of emotion.... Continue Reading →


